Reflecting on Legacy, Service, and Protection

Memorial Day is a time to pause, remember, and reflect on the brave men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice in service to our country. It’s a day filled with patriotism, gratitude, and remembrance—a time to honor values like duty, commitment, and love for family. While parades, flags, and flowers are traditional ways to commemorate the occasion, there’s another meaningful gesture that aligns with these values: creating or updating your estate plan.

Estate planning might not seem connected to Memorial Day at first glance, but when you think about what this holiday truly represents—honoring service, protecting loved ones, and preserving freedom—it becomes clear that planning for your family’s future is one of the most powerful tributes you can make.

Why Estate Planning Matters: It’s About Protection, Not Just Paperwork

Many people delay estate planning because they assume it’s only for the elderly, the wealthy, or those facing a health crisis. But the truth is, estate planning is for everyone who wants to protect their family, clarify their wishes, and ensure their legacy lives on.

Just like those we honor on Memorial Day, creating an estate plan reflects a deep sense of responsibility and commitment to others. It’s about being prepared and making sure that when the time comes, your loved ones are taken care of.

As we explain in our article You Work Hard—Will Your Estate Plan Work for You?, you’ve put in a lifetime of effort to build a home, support your family, and save for the future. An estate plan ensures all that work continues to support your loved ones when you’re no longer here.

Estate Planning Is More Than Just a Will

A solid estate plan includes more than just a will—it’s a comprehensive strategy that covers your health, finances, and legacy. Here are some essential components:

  • Revocable Living Trust or Will: Directs how your assets are distributed and who is responsible for managing your estate.
  • Durable Power of Attorney: Allows a trusted person to make financial decisions if you become incapacitated.
  • Advance Healthcare Directive: States your medical wishes and appoints someone to speak for you if you cannot.
  • HIPAA Authorization: Grants access to your medical information to those you choose.
  • Beneficiary Designations: Ensures your retirement accounts and life insurance policies go to the right people.
  • Letter of Intent: Provides guidance for guardians or trustees, and includes personal notes or final wishes.

Each of these pieces works together to protect your family and ensure your voice is heard—even when you can no longer speak for yourself.

Honoring Service by Protecting What You’ve Built

Whether you or a loved one has served in the military or not, Memorial Day reminds us of the importance of service and sacrifice. By putting an estate plan in place, you serve your family in a meaningful way—protecting them from stress, confusion, and potential legal battles.

It’s also a way to pass on your values. Your estate plan can include letters to your children or grandchildren, instructions for charitable giving, or detailed preferences about your end-of-life care—all of which reflect who you are and what matters most to you.

Your Legacy Is More Than Just Assets

An estate plan doesn’t just transfer money and property—it transfers meaning. Through your plan, you can ensure:

  • Family traditions are preserved
  • Important heirlooms are passed down intentionally
  • Charitable causes close to your heart continue to be supported
  • Your family is not burdened with difficult decisions during a time of grief

Memorial Day is a perfect reminder to think about how we want to be remembered and what legacy we want to leave behind. The same way we honor those who protected our freedoms, we can honor our own families by preparing for the future.

When Was the Last Time You Updated Your Estate Plan?

If you already have an estate plan, Memorial Day is a great time to review it. Life changes quickly—births, marriages, new assets, and shifts in your relationships or goals can all impact your plan. An outdated estate plan can lead to unintended consequences or family disputes.

As we explain in How Often Should I Update My Estate Plan?, you should review your plan every 3–5 years or after a significant life event.

Here’s a quick checklist to help you decide if it’s time for an update:

  • Has your family structure changed (birth, death, marriage, divorce)?
  • Have you bought or sold any property?
  • Are your named trustees, guardians, or agents still appropriate?
  • Do your beneficiaries still reflect your current wishes?
  • Have laws changed since your plan was created?

If the answer to any of these is yes, it’s time to take action. Estate plans are living documents, and just like any long-standing tribute, they need upkeep to stay relevant.

Start the Conversation This Memorial Day

While Memorial Day is a time of remembrance, it’s also a time of togetherness. As families gather to honor those who served, it’s an ideal moment to start important conversations about the future.

Ask your loved ones:

  • Do you have an estate plan in place?
  • Have you reviewed it recently?
  • Is there anything you would want to change if something happened tomorrow?

These conversations don’t have to be heavy or uncomfortable. Approach them with care, focusing on your desire to protect and support each other.

Even a simple story about a loved one’s planning—or lack thereof—can be a powerful way to open the door.

Perhaps a grandparent left behind a beautifully detailed plan that made life easier for everyone, or maybe the family faced unnecessary stress because no documents were in place. These real-life examples help underscore the importance of being proactive.

Attend a Free Estate Planning Workshop

Want to learn more in a relaxed, no-pressure setting? Our free estate planning workshops are designed to help you understand your options and take the first step toward protecting your family.

You’ll get practical, easy-to-understand advice from our experienced attorneys, plus the opportunity to ask questions specific to your situation. We believe knowledge is empowering—and these workshops are our way of serving the community.

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If you’re ready to get started or want help reviewing your current plan, we’re here for you. Our team is compassionate, experienced, and dedicated to helping families protect what matters most.

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